Sunday, May 30, 2010

Southern Weddings - Etiquette with Emily: A Holiday Weekend Wedding


Hi, y'all!  With Memorial Day right around the corner, I have a timely etiquette question to discuss.  What of the holiday weekend wedding?  Is it rude to schedule your wedding for, say, the July 4th weekend?  There are essentially two camps.
The first says that individuals and families often have their own long-standing traditions based around long weekends, and that scheduling a wedding during said weekend forces them to abandon your wedding or abandon their tradition.  Plus, flights and hotels are often more expensive over a holiday, and besides, some people just like to relax when they have a rare Monday off.
The second maintains that just as the bride and groom have the choice of when to schedule their wedding, their guests have the choice of whether or not to attend.  Many host families think an extended weekend essentially makes the travel worth more for their guests, as there is more time for both scheduled events and casual get togethers, all without taking more time off work.
I have to say, I'm firmly in the second camp.  I've always thought (shhhhhh, don't tell!) Labor Day Weekend would be my first choice for my wedding -- the weather is usually perfect in Connecticut at that point, and the three-day span would allow plenty of time for auxiliary events. 
But what about you?  Has anyone planned or is anyone planning a holiday weekend wedding?  How has it gone over with your guests?  Do you think scheduling a holiday wedding is rude?
Let me know what you think, and, as always, send me your etiquette queries for a future edition!

Saturday, May 29, 2010

Project Wedding: Buying Vintage: Advice from the Expert


Buying Vintage: Advice from the Expert

Posted on May 26th, 2010 by Kate. Filed under Wedding Dress.

“I only buy dresses that I absolutely love. That is my one fundamental rule for buying.” Charlie Brear of The Vintage Wedding Dress Company
I can’t get enough of perusing the unique beauties that Charlie houses in her London showroom.  Read our exclusive interview with her here, it’s full of great tips for brides who love vintage!
The lace pieces are my favorite.  I love the idea of having a dress made of a completely unique fabric.  Wouldn’t it be fun to go scouting in relatives’ closets in search great vintage bridal finds?

Friday, May 28, 2010

Martha Stewart Weddings DIY: Custom Banners


Banner Template
Why save the traditional Just Married sign for your car-aided exit? Hang it up at your reception and you'll get more time to enjoy its message. Better yet, spell out your sentiments letter-by-letter using our alphabet template.
Each character is encircled by a different border, a whimsical take on the old-fashioned look of vintage typewriter keys. Print the 3-inch-diameter designs on standard paper and cut or punch them out; make two small slits near the top, just inside the decorative border, and weave a 1/4-inch ribbon through. For streamers, ribbons are a more polished alternative to crepe paper; the pre-pleated ribbon used to make these swags comes in various widths.
Download the Alphabet template in PDF format.

Thursday, May 27, 2010

June Meeting w/ Jim Gentil and David Neff

PRESIDENT'S MESSAGE:
Greetings to you all-

You are cordially invited to the June 2010 Nuptial Essentials Association of Wedding Professionals (NEAWP) Austin Chapter meeting, “Nuturance”.

YOUR SPACE
We are pleased to make our second trip to the Hilton Hotel in downtown Austin! Thank you to our very own NEAWP member, Elizabeth Rison for hosting this event. You can find out more atwww.hilton.com.

YOUR SPONSOR
I would like to thank Olga Lee of Polka Dots - A Cupcake Factory for being our featured sponsor of the month. Take the time out of your day to visit this charming SWEET SHOP located at 2826 Rio Grande in a house built in the 1900’s. To find out more about Polka Dots, visit their website at .www.polkadotscupcakefactory.com.

YOUR NOTES
Still need an NEAWP business nametag? If you would like a professional name tag for the meetings, bring $7.00 to the meeting. The next order will be placed on June 10, 2010. All name tags must be paid for prior to being ordered. Look at a sample in our April newsletter online.

We are rounding up our teams for the NEAWP event Olympics this summer! Start getting into shape!

Visit our new blog at www.neawp.blogspot.com.

Our next online wedding certification course will be in June. Tired of taking your precious time to train staff? Leave that to us! Get back to making money and not giving away free information. Contact John at johnjohn@nuptialessentials.com. Scholarships are available!

YOUR THEME
Change - Participating in new activities and fashions and liking the novelty of one’s life.

YOUR SPEAKER
We are hitting you with the “one-two punch” in June! You are getting two speakers for the price of ONE! Thank you to Cortney Zieky, PWC our education chair.

Jim Gentil - Mr. Positive 

Jim Gentil worked for The Dow Chemical Company for 25 years. He served as Public Relations manager, Community Relations manager, and for the last 12 years of his corporate career he was a lobbyist and Manager of State Government Affairs. Jim retired from Dow in 1996 and moved to Austin to continue his dream of providing his positive, motivational message and materials to those who need it.
Jim's lifetime experiences include being a teacher for 14 years in addition to being an author, speaker and magician. He has successfully owned and operated a pizza parlor, published a weekly television guide and operated a video production company. He has served as news director for a radio station in Texas City, Texas and was TV news anchor for the first cable television station in Galveston, Texas. He also anchored corporate television news programs while serving as public relations manager for the Dow Chemical Company. He has lived a total of 10 years overseas, nine in Korea and one in Germany.
Jim is the author of a success motivational guidebook, The 60-Second System of Success, and Positive People Power! as well as publisher of The Positive People Power! Newsletter and The Positive Spiritual Living Newsletter which are available free on e-mail. He has tremendous enthusiasm, an eager interest to help people and a strong desire to spread his philosophy of POSITIVE PEOPLE POWER! to anyone expressing a commitment to have a better life for themselves.

David J. Neff - Social Media Guru

My name is David J. Neff. I help Non Profits and people for a living. I do that with Ridgewood Associates and Lights. Camera. Help. I also do large scale collaborative events like Non Profit Bar Camp and VideoCamp Austin. I would say that I am a Teacher, Speaker, Blogger, Network Weaver, and Social Media Scientist. For over 10 years I have done things that have never been done before at Non Profits. This includes launching the American Cancer Society's first software program , building the first ever user generated Web Site for those affected by cancer, and starting their Social Media, Online Giving an Film departments.
I'm currently working on getting my own non profit up and running. It's called Lights. Camera. Help. We help all other non profits focus on good through our film festival, education and the world's first film focused volunteer program. I was named one of the "Top 20 Social Media People in the state of Texas" by the Austin American Statesman in 2009. The American Marketing Association awarded me the "Non Profit Social Media Marketer of the Year" in 2009. I also was also a past twice recipient of a American Cancer Society Futuring and Innovations grant. I am also responsible for helping start The Frozen Pea Fund to fight Breast Cancer and a co-founder of the successful Austin Tweetups : Social Media for Social Good. I am also a published author with articles in PRSA Tatics and the new 2010 version of the book People to People Fundraising.
I earned my BS in Public Relations from the University of Texas in 2000 with a minor in Business from the McCombs School of Business. I earned my Certified Internet Webmaster certification in 2003. I currently live in Austin, TX and enjoy filmmaking, hosting a TV show, live music, photography, halloween, and spending time with my dogs and my friends.

YOUR CHARITY
Don’t forget to “keep the change and pay it forward”. Empty out that change jar in your car and donate to this monthly cause. The money will be used at Christmas for Toys for Tots!

For more information, please contact us!

I look forward to seeing you all at the meeting!

Amy Mader

President
NECI,LLC and NEAWP

Style Me Pretty: From Inspiration to Reality: the Board


From Inspiration to Reality: The Board

May 27th. 2010 by Erin Lepperd | 1 comment
This week has been an explosion of all things inspirational and we aren’t done just yet. We have another From Inspiration to Reality feature to share and this one goes out to all of you bohemian lovers.  Straight from Austin, Texas, this is rustic boho at its finest. Think flowing dresses, raw cotton and lace and you are on the right track. Before we get to all of the fabulous goodies, can we please drool over Emilia Jane’s dreamy board that inspired the shoot? I think this girl might have the magic touch because this is her second board turned into real live inspiration!
Sometimes I Wish we were an Eagle
The inner hippie in us is squealing with delight over this board and the shoot that followed suit. Hold on to your flower crowns ladies. You will not want to miss a second of this. We will be back lickity split with the design from this fabulous Austin crew.
Photography: Heather Curiel Weddings / Design and Styling: Clink Events / Florals: Merveille Events / Venue: Vista West Ranch, Austin, Texas / Tables and Benches: Marquee Event Group / Napkins: BBJ Linens / Stationary: Couture Ink / Clothing: Vintage pieces from Laced with Romance
CLINK and Vista West Ranch are members of our Little Black Book. For more information on how members are chosen, click here.

Monday, May 24, 2010

Featured Wedding: Ashley and Drew

Featured on Style Me Pretty:


I really wish that I was half as cool as this couple. From the fashion to the venue, every little bit of style that they chose is just so freaking cool. It makes me a little bit jealous actually. But not jealous enough to stop myself from completely gushing and going on and on about just how much I love them. Ashley and Drew tied the knot this past November at Laguna Gloria Art Museum in beautiful Austin, Texas. With the goal of bringing in their arts background and their modern but eclectic style, the wedding turned out to be a study in effortless chic. Oh and the photographs by Jennifer Lindberg really take it to an entirely new level.







When we got engaged in January of 2009, we were not really sure what we wanted our wedding to be like. We knew we wanted to be outdoors. We debated about where to get married but we knew we wanted something modern and somewhat non-traditional. I am from the Big Bend area and we both love it there, but when we decided that we wanted a larger wedding. We knew Austin was a better choice. We love it here and it is more convenient for travel. We ended up working with Amy Mader from Platinum Weddings and Events. She was great and really helped us find vendors that fit our style. We have always liked simple, clean, yet elegant design and that was kind of the basic theme for everything we chose. Laguna Gloria was a pretty easy choice for us. We are both artists, so the art was a great appeal, and it is obviously beautiful. We were really fortunate to get the last available date for the year, November 28.









We chose to use ivory, graphite and black for our colors, because we felt it would help us carry out our elegant and modern vision. I have always loved greys and neutral colors are pretty versatile. We had seen some flowers that we loved at Uchi many months prior but we did not know their name. We later found out that they were Scabiosa pods, so the idea for our flower arrangements started there. After talking with Jean Gabbay of Gunn & Rose Design, we were really drawn to their architectural and sculptural influence. I had gathered pictures of flowers I liked and Gunn & Rose were amazing in bringing them all together. We wanted a hand gathered look that was still elegant and modern. We loved our flowers very much.
I wanted to mention that the ceremony music was really a reflection of our style as well. Will Taylor from Strings Attached arranged instrumental versions of songs from some of our favorite artists: Nick Drake, Joseph Arthur and Bon Iver. We were really excited about that. Also, having a background in photography myself and with Drew and I both being artists, we had high expectations for a photographer. We picked Jenn Lindberg for her style and creative approach. We are really happy with the photographs and feel that they captured everything wonderfully. Word of Mouth did an amazing job catering. They really worked with us on the menu. We wanted to use natural hormone free meats and as much local produce as possible. They found out what kinds of foods we like and created a wonderful and unique menu that reflected our love for Mediterranean, Asian, Indian food, etc. but kept it simple enough to appeal to everyone.
Vendor Credits: Photography: Jennifer Lindberg Weddings / Getting ready Venue: Hotel St. Cecilia / Ceremony & Reception Venue: Laguna Gloria Art Museum / Planner, Amy Mader: Platinum Weddings / Catering: Word of Mouth Catering / Paper: Alegra’s Invitations / Lighting and Production: First In Last Out Productions / Recycling: Wandering Recycling / Rentals & Tents: Marquee Event Group / Floral:Gunn and Rose Floral / Make up: Rae Cosmetics / Chair rentals: Premiere Party Central / Cake: The Cake Plate / Groom’s Cake: Blue Note Bakery / Reception Music: Skyrocket Band / Antique Car:Transportation Consultants / Ceremony Musicians: Strings Attached

Friday, May 21, 2010

June Meeting Invitation

DON’T FORGET TO VIEW OUR MAY NEWSLETTER AT www.neawp.org
TO SEE WHAT WE ARE UP TO!


NEAWP Austin Chapter Meeting
Wednesday, June 2, 2010
11:00am-1:00pm

The Hilton Hotel- Downtown
500 East 4th Street
Austin, Texas 78701
512.482.8000

You are cordially invited to the June 2010 Nuptial Essentials Association of Wedding Professionals (NEAWP) Austin Chapter meeting, “Nuturance”.  

YOUR SPACE
We are pleased to make our second trip to the Hilton Hotel in downtown Austin! Thank you to our very own NEAWP member, Elizabeth Rison for hosting this event. You can find out more at www.hilton.com.

YOUR SPONSOR
I would like to thank Olga Lee of Polka Dots- A Cupcake Factory for being our featured sponsor of the month.  Take the time out of your day to visit this charming SWEET SHOP located at 2826 Rio Grande in a house built in the 1900’s. To find out more about Polka Dots, visit their website at www.polkadotscupcakefactory.com.

YOUR NOTES
Still need an NEAWP business nametag?  If you would like a professional name tag for the meetings, bring $7.00 to the meeting. The next order will be placed on June 10, 2010. All name tags must be paid for prior to being ordered. Look at a sample in our April newsletter online.

We are rounding up our teams for the NEAWP event Olympics this summer! Start getting into shape!

Visit our new blog at www.neawp.blogspot.com

Our next online wedding certification course will be in June. Tired of taking your precious time to train staff? Leave that to us! Get back to making money and not giving away free information. Contact John atjohnjohn@nuptialessentials.com. Scholarships are available!

DO NOTE: YOUR RSVP DATE IS MEMORIAL DAY!

YOUR THEME
Change- Participating in new activities and fashions and liking the novelty of one’s life.

YOUR SPEAKER
We are hitting you with the “one-two punch” in June! You are getting two speakers for the price of ONE! Thank you to Cortney Zieky, PWC our education chair.

Jim Gentil- Mr. Positive
            Jim Gentil worked for The Dow Chemical Company for 25 years.  He served as Public Relations manager, Community Relations manager, and for the last 12 years of his corporate career he was a lobbyist and Manager of State Government Affairs.  Jim retired from Dow in 1996 and moved to Austin to continue his dream of providing his positive, motivational message and materials to those who need it.

            Jim's lifetime experiences include being a teacher for 14 years in addition to being an author, speaker and magician. He has successfully owned and operated a pizza parlor, published a weekly television guide and operated a video production company. He has served as news director for a radio station in Texas City, Texas and was TV news anchor for the first cable television station in Galveston, Texas.  He also anchored corporate television news programs while serving as public relations manager for the Dow Chemical Company. He has lived a total of 10 years overseas, nine in Korea and one in Germany.

            Jim is the author of a success motivational guidebook, The 60-Second System of Success,  and  Positive People Power!  as well as publisher of The Positive People Power! Newsletter  andThe Positive Spiritual Living Newsletter which are available free on e-mail.   He has tremendous enthusiasm, an eager interest to help people and a strong desire to spread his philosophy of POSITIVE PEOPLE POWER! to anyone expressing a commitment to have a better life for themselves. 

David J. Neff- Social Media Guru
My name is David J. Neff. I help Non Profits and people for a living. I do that with Ridgewood Associates and Lights. Camera. Help. I also do large scale collaborative events like Non Profit Bar Camp and VideoCamp Austin. I would say that I am a Teacher, Speaker, Blogger, Network Weaver, and Social Media Scientist.  For over 10 years I have done things that have never been done before at Non Profits. This includes launching the American Cancer Society's first software program , building the first ever user generated Web Site for those affected by cancer, and starting their Social Media, Online Giving an Film departments.

I'm currently working on getting my own non profit up and running. It's called Lights. Camera. Help. We help all other non profits focus on good through our film festival, education and the world's first film focused volunteer program. I was named one of the "Top 20 Social Media People in the state of Texas" by the Austin American Statesman in 2009. The American Marketing Association awarded me the "Non Profit Social Media Marketer of the Year" in 2009. I also was also a past twice recipient of a American Cancer Society Futuring and Innovations grant. I am also responsible for helping start The Frozen Pea Fund to fight Breast Cancer and a co-founder of the successful Austin Tweetups : Social Media for Social Good. I am also a published author with articles in PRSA Tatics and the new 2010 version of the book People to People Fundraising.

I earned my BS in Public Relations from the University of Texas in 2000 with a minor in Business from the McCombs School of Business. I earned my Certified Internet Webmaster certification in 2003. I currently live in Austin, TX and enjoy filmmaking, hosting a TV show, live music, photography, halloween, and spending time with my dogs and my friends.

YOUR CHARITY

Don’t forget to “keep the change and pay it forward”. Empty out that  change jar in your car and donate to this monthly cause. The money will be used at Christmas for Toys for Tots!

YOUR POLICIES
1.     The 2010 meeting fees are $30.00 per meeting for current NEAWP members. Payments received after the deadline or at the door will be assessed a $5.00 fee.
2.     Guests are always welcome. They need to be added to your RSVP list and you will receive the reservation confirmation. The 2010 guest meeting fees are $50.00 per non member
3.     If you show up to the meeting without a reservation confirmation, the cost will be $35.00 per current NEAWP member and $55.00 per guest.
4.     You can pay with any major credit card via PayPal on our website by simply going towww.associationofweddingprofessionals.com/ca_meeting.com then click the meeting you would like to attend. All PayPal payments must be received by Monday May 31, 2010 at 12:00pm. All checks must be made payable to: NEAWP.  Any payments received after the deadline or at the door, will be assessed a $5.00 fee.  The 2010 NSF fee for checks is $50.00.
5.     To ensure your reservation at the meeting, RSVP to amy@nuptialessentials.comYou will receive a confirmation reservation email. Bring a copy of your confirmation email  to the check in table the day of the meeting. If your RSVP changes after May 31, 2010 at 12:00pm you will be charged the full meeting amount.
I look forward to seeing you all at the meeting! Our meeting will be kept within the time allotted so you can get back to making lots of money!

Now go plan beautiful events!
Amy Mader, PWC
President


Thursday, May 20, 2010

Martha Stewart Weddings DIY: Announcement Flags


Announcement Flags Clip Art
Download the PDF file, and print onto medium-weight 11-by-17-inch paper. (If your home printer won't use that size of paper, most copy shops will be able to print it for you; simply put the file on a disc or a thumb drive and take it to one.)
Cut the paper into a triangle by cutting from the corners of one end to the center of the opposite end (use a paper trimmer or a craft knife and a metal yardstick or long straightedge).
Paint a 1/2-inch dowel white or whatever color you want. The paint will seal the wood to avoid splinters and will provide a washable surface, as well as create a polished look. We used an 18-inch-long dowel, but most lumberyards sell dowels up to 48 inches long, which would make a very tall flag.
Attach the wide end of the flag to the dowel with double-sided tape, and tie on a ribbon bow.
Vest, shirt, bow tie, and shorts from Crewcuts by J.Crew.

NECI June Courses Starting

NECI

I am pleased to announce the next online NECI wedding course will begin June 21st,2010
We will be granting scholarships up to $150.00 until June 14th, 2010.

Please contact John Cook,Admissions Advisor, Ph# 210-823-6522/ johnjohn@nuptialessentials.com
I would be happy to answer any wedding course, payment arrangements, and scholarship details with you.
Our Distance Education wedding course is offered anytime!

***Did you know that We are the first and only vocational school for wedding consulting instruction licensed and regulated 
by the Texas Workforce Commission.